omg, the tittle sounds so.. erm, difficult? idk.
i just hate it when people here say 'i hate malaysia'. okay, seems like many reasons make it possible for us, indonesians, to hate them. like, the terrorist stuff, dr. azahari or so, came from malaysia. the reog ponorogo and other indonesian cultures being stolen, and the sipadan and ligitan islands, and now the ambalat island plus the violence from kelantan royal. well i personally believe that its very very not fair to judge all malaysians are bad or having criminal minds or else. okay lets describe it one by one, why i dont like people to stereotype all malaysians.
first, the terrorist. i think nobody in this world wants such a thing like war or bomb or whatever it is. we ALL want peace. (except the selfish ones who want the world becomes like what they want). but im pretty sure Malaysians didnt want it to be happened just as we didnt want it too. like, if they were planning on all of these, like wanted to make all people other than islam dissapear (thats all i know about it. and im Muslim, im Islam, and i REALLY dont want it. and so do other moslems i believe), why they chose Indonesia? WHY??? we all know Indonesia is a country with the biggest Muslims population. so i think its not fair to say malaysians wanted to destroy indonesia because theyre jealous with us. i mean, seriously, why indonesia which is so close to them. sooo, its NOT because of it. its just the unresponsible ones job :(
and next, our cultures being 'stolen' by them. well, who doesnt know that our cultures are similar to theirs? and i have a malaysian friend, who is a javanese just like me. so whats the difference? i mean, it is a lesson for us to keep what we have as well. dont regret anything, just move on and see what we can do next. (we had this -things-being-stolen- for like ages. after the artsy thingy, the islands). well i myself think i cant do anything ut support the govt. and so do others i think, and so do malaysians. so we are similar!! why should we hate them?
and, the violence and abuse thingy seem make it all become worse. like, hellooooo? it all comes back to them individually. again i say dont stereotype people like that. the violence can happen to everyone everywhere. still remember the ''lisa face-off' case? shes the victim of violence, by his husband, an indonesian man. see? why people do not hate indonesians? because theyre indonesians too? and the kelantan royal? because theyre NOT indonesians, we can hate them? omg that sounds so racist. haha thats funny to say 'racist', because we have the same race with them. so whats that? i dont know but all i know is, we have to put away our prejudice.
so, i am indonesian, i havent been to malaysia before, but i proudly say i do not hate malaysia. i have many malaysians friends. theyre nice. as nice as indonesians friends, and so many others from wherever they are. maybe many of the problems we have are way more political. or also more private. but it makes it getting 'hot' between these 2 countries. so people, who claimed their selves 'malaysians hater' or whatsoever the name is, please look around. isnt there anything you can do beside criticize anything related to malaysia? or, are you good enough to judge something is wrong or bad? well, lets spread the love and the peace. love for all hatred for none :D